Listening to this latest video from Ross Rosenberg made clear somethings about why someone may what to shame you or shut you down for experiencing a feeling they may find intolerable..its what happens to us in families where we are not allowed our own emotional reality..(note when he uses the term SLD he is referring to the term Self Love Deficit .. this is what happens to us when we are not taught to love and embrace our selves as we really are.) He explains how we then turn against our own feelings and will probably try to stop other people having theirs.
Emerging From The Dark Night 
Hi Deb how are you .. …It’s a bit cold,wet, and windy down here, but I’ve managed to get in a 40min walk with Frankie ..
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I’m okat Ivor not as sad as earlier in the day. We got out for a neighbourhood walk but it was pretty icy. Just staying in where it’s warm and cosy now. Lovely to hear from you…sending love and ((hugs))
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((hugs)) I’ll send you an email with some pic’s of Frankie
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Awww lovely Ivor thanks so much 🙂
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On the way soon
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Ill keep an eye out just off to feed Jasper 🙂
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There now…
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I replied Ivor.. love the photos.. happy dance.. 🙂
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