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when its not safe to experience your REAL feelings in narcissistic families.

Listening to this latest video from Ross Rosenberg made clear somethings about why someone may what to shame you or shut you down for experiencing a feeling they may find intolerable..its what happens to us in families where we are not allowed our own emotional reality..(note when he uses the term SLD he is referring to the term Self Love Deficit .. this is what happens to us when we are not taught to love and embrace our selves as we really are.) He explains how we then turn against our own feelings and will probably try to stop other people having theirs.

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