A very important post for anyone ever abused by a narcissist.
Cynthia Bailey-Rug, Christian Author
There are many myths about narcissistic abuse. This post’s purpose is to debunk some of the more common ones.
“You let him/her get away with treating you that way. That’s why he/she does what they do.” Narcissists aren’t normal people who respect boundaries. They don’t care that their actions cause pain & problems for others. They only care about what they want. No matter what consequences you give a narcissist, chances of them respecting your boundaries are slim to none.
“Narcissists only abuse the weak & stupid.” Anyone can be abused by a narcissist, no matter their intelligence, personality, religious beliefs, social standing or gender. Narcissists are incredibly good actors & can convince anyone of whatever they want them to believe. Even people who know a great deal about Narcissistic Personality Disorder can be fooled temporarily. Someone who doesn’t know about it can be fooled much easier & for a…
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I’ve heard that first one so many times.
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Good info to remember since they often try to throw us off the track.
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