You have to laugh
Often, at the absurdity of life
So as not to keep crying
Drowning in pools of tears
Over things that happened to you
That were so far beyond your control
Otherwise
You are going to ransom life
If you cannot find a way to bear the pain
And then step around it
To embrace the irony
You will never be free
Of weights of lead
That you never placed upon you
But continue to do nothing whatsoever
About removing
This is not to say that often
The depths of what happens is not heartbreaking
But in the end
If you wish to live
Its up to you to choose life
And laughter
Not a living death
Of unending unrepentant
Unbearable sorrow
Emerging From The Dark Night 
Beautifully written, I have so much love for this post.
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Wow thanks so much Arnie. That is lovely to read. ❤
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So much to learn from this, especially for me. I am trying to choose life after two years of soul wrenching grief.
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Maybe its more a case of timing. Grief is a deep process and we dont always have control over how long it holds us in its grasp…one day we just feel a brightening but im conscious too in my case its different on different days…Soul wrenching grief is so intense. Sending you love 💖
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Thank you for understanding. Sending healing love back to you.
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❤
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