You cannot heal something you cannot accept.

An early post I wrote a while back while healing from my last relationship. Painful realities can be hard to accept but we cannot move on from them until we do.

Emerging From The Dark Night

Life can pitch us some very raw deals. When we have been hurt or are hurting it can seem to be a cruel suggestion that we need to accept something we don’t like or that hurts us. And yet accepting something does not mean that we say something that happened is okay. Most of the time is not okay. But the main point I have found is that until I can accept something I cannot find freedom from it.

I have just been reading a comment on a reply I left on the blog of Let Me Reach, devoted to the healing of people coming out of a relationship with a Narcissist. I was sharing how difficult a journey it was to find freedom from all the nasty things my ex narcissistic partner would say to me. Mostly what riled him was my ability to be and express my…

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