
Let’s not talk about death
But honey it is all around us
And don’t you see
Its only the darker face of life
The ghost that shadows our waking days
But maybe my love I understand
You want to be in life
You want to live
And a long time ago you
Lost you Dad
And maybe no one ever speaks to you of him
When you say to me
Let’s not talk about death
I feel so shut down
I feel that I am
Once again the one who wants to engage
With things taboo
That others only fear
And want to run a mile from
But isn’t it the shamans way
To enter the world of shades
Only to come out again and tell the tale
Realising how precious is
This gift of life
Maligned and tortured
Feared or misunderstood
Only our culture could
So completely eradicate all whiff of death
‘To make of the life left such a living hell
For those who suffer
With truths and experiences locked so deep inside
They are never permitted to know, feel
Or speak of
That they must then cover over
Pretend and hide
Wow
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For a lot of people talking about death is hard, especially if they’re lost someone close. I don’t necessarily think that he shot YOU down, just maybe wasn’t as comfortable with the topic as you are. In the place he’s in as well, where death is around him all the time, it might be particularly uncomfortable and maybe even terrifying to even think about death… even the more “positive” aspects of it, like it helping us to really appreciate life. I don’t know if this is indeed the case, but it’s what came to mind. ❤
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Thanks Rayne I really appreciate your feedback. I overdramatised and made a bigger deal out of it than was needed but it just hit a raw never and all you write is so true.
We talked everything through and we came back to an understanding. I think I was lacking empathy for him by being too caught up in my own reaction and response and I felt bad about it later.
Bless you ❤
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It happens, we’re human, and all of us react out of our own past issues. It’s quite amazing to see how different everyone’s perspectives are.
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