She isn’t alive anymore VJ but her work lives on. I think we get taught self hatred from a very young age. Kids can be cruel when filled with lies or put down my parents whose own self love and self esteem is not strong. Do try it. Look deeply into your eyes and say I love you. Notivmce the negative judgements that come up that will.show you where the old programs live. I also think we are led to believe ‘having tickets on yoursel’ and other such shaming runs deep. This isn’t about bravado or fake confidence either. It runs far deeper than that. Sending love ❤️ thanks for your comment means a lot 🙂
It’s funny, because I grew up with three sisters – one was a model, and the other spent hours in front of the mirror backcombing her hair, just so. Couldn’t get near a mirror if I wanted to, lol. I went the opposite way – avoided mirrors, makeup, and even brushing my hair. Drove my mother mad.
That is a good thing though as I get what they were doing may not have been about true self love. You knew who you were and what you wanted and were different. That sounds healthy to me.
Emerging From The Dark Night 
Why is this so hard? I always avoid looking at myself. She is still going and glowing, eh?
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She isn’t alive anymore VJ but her work lives on. I think we get taught self hatred from a very young age. Kids can be cruel when filled with lies or put down my parents whose own self love and self esteem is not strong. Do try it. Look deeply into your eyes and say I love you. Notivmce the negative judgements that come up that will.show you where the old programs live. I also think we are led to believe ‘having tickets on yoursel’ and other such shaming runs deep. This isn’t about bravado or fake confidence either. It runs far deeper than that. Sending love ❤️ thanks for your comment means a lot 🙂
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It’s funny, because I grew up with three sisters – one was a model, and the other spent hours in front of the mirror backcombing her hair, just so. Couldn’t get near a mirror if I wanted to, lol. I went the opposite way – avoided mirrors, makeup, and even brushing my hair. Drove my mother mad.
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That is a good thing though as I get what they were doing may not have been about true self love. You knew who you were and what you wanted and were different. That sounds healthy to me.
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Thanks.
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