My true self is made from love and is full of love, but sadly when young many of us lose our way to this source of love which becomes tarnished by fear as well as related emotions which fear, and a deep state of inner disconnection can bring.
Love energy is heart energy and it is an energy whose natural state is one of flow, when this natural state of flow dams up it is because of blockages, powerful inner beliefs absorbed from damaged care givers who taught us not how to love, only how to react, fear, avoid and be afraid. This state of inner division, conflict, or opposition will then set us at odds with life and make us unhappy.
Only wisdom and self acceptance of our true self enables us to unblock this flow. So where ever we are not acting upon our deepest impulse to love and be loved and to reach toward that which opens our heart and brings us joy, we will fail to be able to flow with the light that emanates from our True Self. In addition healthy boundaries of love show that we attract love through honoring ourself as well as our natural body and soul needs.
Spiritual teacher James Van Praagh has this to say :
If something makes you unhappy, it does not belong to you, and (when you) freely give it up and let your energy flow freely you will experience an inner environment of happiness, balance and peace.
Your natural state of being is love.
ACCEPT YOURSELF.
Emerging From The Dark Night 