Why bullies unite against a feared ‘enemy’ : its emotional cowardice basically.

Cherie White is one of my true heroes.. A victim of bullying she got away and educated herself so she can help others.. We need to understand more about this phenomena as bullies are great at denial and they co-opt others into the smear campaign. I had that happen to me on here a few years ago around the time my Mum started to deteriorate in health.. This person wanted to ‘applaud’ me by sharing an elaborate Happy Birthday post on her blog (one I didn’t ask for) and when I found it a bit much due to being called in and out to emergency to be with Mum she smeared me on her blog and co-opted ‘flying monkeys’ to bully and shame me.. I did not fully understand why she got so aggressive and nasty at the time. She then denied it and tried to turn it all back around on me.. I took it.

Anyway that said this is a recent post by Cherie about how the bully operates to become stronger through collective co-opting.. People literally suicide at times from bullying we need to STOP IT!

Bullies also need victims for entertainment and as victory trophies to collect and display. They need victims as guinea pigs to test their (perceived) strength and power and then show proof thereof to bystanders and witnesses.

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