Painful shit goes down but for some of us, dare we scream or ‘make a fuss’ we will be painted as the bad guy, the spanner in the works the ‘loose cannon.’
Case in point just a moment ago another news item slamming Meghan Markle and Price Harry for hurting the Queen popped up on my MSN News fed. Please don’t get me wrong the Queen is not responsible for her conditioning, for the trouble with relating emotionally, just look at what her dear Dad went through when his brother chose to abdicate. The movie The Queen”s Speech showed how he struggled in the aftermath of that and sadly developed cancer a bit further down the track.
In a way when you see what happened to Princess Di when she married into the emotionally repressive Royal Family (with a Sun sign related to identity in Cancer opposing the tradition sign of the Monarchy Capricorn) it all makes sense,. As a child Charles was not cuddled much and was left alone when the Queen and Prince went on trips.. Maybe he had attentive Nannies I do not know. I am sure he was loved, but he was bought up under great restrictions of propriety about what was deemed ‘acceptable’. When I resided in the UK I read a book that explored how royalty when they married were supposed to choose a Virgin, how interesting that Princess Diana a sun sign Cancer still had a very strong Virgo influence in her chart.
Diana seemed to carry and try to express all of the submerged emotions, she was viewed as somehow ‘histronic’ but with her deep abandonment wounds how could she not have felt so painfully lonely after marrying and being stuck in the palace, and then when she found out that in many ways she was in no way the love of Prince Charles life, merely being used as some kind of ‘decoy; can you imagine the anger? No wonder she we gorging in the kitchen late at night then falling down the stairs. Some nights she actually broke out through a window and took a jaunt into town in disguise just to escape and have some fun.
Meghan and Harry obviously could not survive in that repressive environment, that suits William and Kate. That makes a lot of sense astrologically sing all Meghan has a Leo Sun that puts her at odds with both the Queen Sun sign Taurus) and Prince Charles (Sun sign Scorpio) but isn’t it interesting to note that all of those signs are on the so called ‘fixed cross’?
Repressed life energy has to come out some ways.. That Harry and Meghan made a noise was necessary, that they had to escape so far away shows they needed breathing space, but why are they villified for it?
There are times taking distance may be counterproductive though if deeper issues cannot be addressed but if you (as the youngest) are faced with a family geared towards repression then it becomes a frustrating and very very lonely fight.. I only have empathy for them, but I also feel for the Queen but sadly until she also could address the underground emotions I do not know how it would be possible for the schism to be healed perhaps until deeper insight is found on behalf of the younger ones some way further down the line.