I wrote a post on victimisation earlier in the week and just found the link to Melanie Tonia Edwards latest thriver video in my email inbox this afternoon.. I love what she says in this that we have the inner resources to reclaim our power and heal. Interesting that she was told by the medical profession that the adrenal and cortical issues she developed from narcissistic abuse would never be healed and that she wound need anti-psychotics for the rest of her life, something that did not prove to be true when she decided to cut contact, take care of herself and love herself including the hurting wounded parts. I also love the part about continuing to nurture blame and resentment being akin to taking poison hoping our offender will die. That never leads anywhere good.