I can’t care any more : finding our intrinsic value

I cannot care any more about those who are not loving or caring.. Caring people treat you well, they do not put you down, if they care for and about you they get in touch.. I am seeing lately how often I chased those who did not really seem to care, in fact I am seeing lately that I exhausted myself by the project..

There were three things that Pastor R C Blakes recommended women say to themselves daily to build themselves up in a video of his I shared last week they were :

1. I am enough
2. I do not care
3. I always win

His point with the last one is not to be super competitive with anyone but to know whatever bad past experiences we have had, you and I have in some way managed to rise above them.. It is to know that God is on our side as long as we remember WHO WE REALLY ARE AND WHAT WE TRULY VALUE.. and if our narcissisitic families made us feel less than or unsafe or diminished our value True Self or inner sense of worth, we do not have to take those beliefs deep down inside of us to the degree they poison our self concept.

I often say lately.. God is my witness, he knows who I am, he knows that I care and care at times too much. But lately I feel God wants me to be even more caring about only those who show themselves to also care.. Otherwise there are those who will only drain us and as much as we try to love them if they will not love themselves then that is their choice..

Often sadly though, it is NOT A CHOICE..

IT IS A FALSE BELIEF IN THEIR OWN UNLOVABILITY THEY ASSUMED OR SWALLOWED. AND THEN PROJECT ONTO US.

BUT IT IS A FALSE BELIEF..

PLEASE IF YOU SUFFER FROM THIS FALSE BELIEF TRY TO CHANGE IT..

ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT YOUR NATURAL SENSE OF VALUE IS INTRINSIC..

AND ONCE YOU HAVE TRULY FOUND THAT NO ONE CAN TAKE IT AWAY FROM YOU..