Its always interesting to revisit old posts. In this one my struggle to reconcile the dark and lights sides was strong only 7 months after Mum dying which affected deeply my family inner relational dynamic. Today I read it knowing how much I’ve grown as being told “to just get over it” does not trigger me half as much.
I can’t seem to stop crying this afternoon. Its been a hell of a morning because I reached out to someone for support last night and all I got was the message to be positive and for some reason when I am dealing with old grief or tough stuff this really triggers me and sets me into a rage. The sheer true real fact is that some of our life and experiences are just SO GODDAM NEGATIVE AND SAD and to have to gloss over that with the demand that I be happy, well it just upsets me so much and heading towards the anniversary of my husband leaving on 4th August its challenging. When I really hoped for some understanding and support. I was let down. Well people are human!
The person did apologise but this morning I could not face it to make the commitment to…
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Emerging From The Dark Night 
I still think it’s insensitive for people to say “just get over it”, but until they go through it themselves they probably won’t understand…..so we forgive, mostly for our own sake.
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Yes, in the end it’s the only way to find peace. ❤
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