The hurt dumped in us may hurt us irrevocably in the end if we cannot let it go. It could end up making us sick if it doesn’t awaken us to the need to love the hurting places in order to stop them hurting as the damage done to our own body never fully contained or mediated turns toxic..
This is just something I had to write after reading a post of someone I care about in deep soul anguish.. My heart is aching for them right now.. they were hurt and punished physically over a long period, tied to a chair, left alone and never supported.. Recently they tried to get the second parent to acknowledge that they abandoned them and that parent is no longer talking to them.. WE ABSOLUTELY NEED SOMEONE TO GET IT..BUT THE ABUSER OR THOSE WHO STAND BY AND DO NOTHING BUT TURN A BLIND EYE CANNOT THEY ARE VESTED IN BURYING THE TRUTH..
If the truth is unbearable hurt, complete failure to nurture and love a vulnerable young being it can leave them shattered.. I am scared for my friend.. All of this suffering is too much to go through and then to have therapists fail you. this world sometimes seems so so tough for Complex Trauma and Abuse Survivors.. I feel helpless but i do have the power to voice it… I love my friend.. I feel for my friend.. I just do not know how to help my friend.
Emerging From The Dark Night 