The Magic of Self Empowerment

It never ceases to amaze me, but even years after coming out of a relationship with a narcissist I can still have times when the pull of that connection and all that happened during the time it lasted comes back to me. At these times I lose the sense that the narcissist was a narcissist and I think, perhaps it was me that got it wrong, and after all that is what I was conditioned to believe by them.  I have just noticed a post on Kim Saeed’s site that caused me to think of an issue I often encountered with the narcissist.  That is, he would tell me how difficult it was to love someone like me, a person with so many issues and irritating habits.

http://letmereach.com/2014/09/21/to-the-woman-whos-made-to-feel-like-shes-difficult-to-love/

I was having a conversation the other day with a friend about depression, grief and sadness, but particularly about something I believe, that in our…