Lisa Romaro has a great take on how narcissistic abuse underlies so many other mental health issues.. As a child of alcoholic parents she has lived the journey.. She makes some excellent points in this talk about what we need to heal and become empowered.. Understanding narcissism is not enough.. We need to feel understood and that there is a way out, from the emotional arrest that happens in emotionally immature families and the patterns that open us to being used or over give.