No, I can’t JUST forget about it! I need to heal and it takes time. You cannot see my wounds, but it doesn’t mean that they don’t exist and that I am not suffering. You wouldn’t ask someone with a broken leg to just walk it off.
Pascales Healing Journey
Check out this great blog posted today on coming to terms with narcissistic abuse and the addressing the dumb things people say and misunderstand in this situation.
My experience is one day after a long period of grief, anger and confusion jwe transcend narcissistic abuse and are able to see the truth of what occured from a higher perspective but a lot of suffering and second guessing occurs in the a drawn out process that is never cut and dried. I loved the analogy used in point 9 from the blog so that is why I have shared it in a separate blog rather than just reblogging the post.
Emerging From The Dark Night 